5.16.2007

Check List

Wednesday, 16 May 07, 7.56pm in office

Hi my little diary,
I only have 2 more days left working at this company.. I feel so happy as well as sad.. I'm happy coz I don't need to care about works, annoying clients, and sickening politics in office!! But, I'm sad coz I'll have to leave my good friends in this office..

This morning I took half day leave so that I could settle my things like applying Japan visa, collecting my plane ticket, etc. Below are the checklist on what I've done and what I still need to do:

What I've Done:
1. Applied visa (it took 2 trips to apply visa since my first application was rejected *sigh*)
2. Collected my plane ticket to Solo
3. Sold 2 units of TVs (one is Ron's, the other one is mine)
4. Sold my Twist & Shape (read: Gave away my Twist & Shape for FREE) :(
5. Collected my T&Co rings that have been engraved
6. Chose photos and submitted to King Photo on what I want to put in album (it took long time to do it, manz..)
7. Closed my bank account
8. Registered company (for future use just in case I wanna do business in Japan.. *beriman*)
9. Opened a corporate bank account for my new company
10. Registered CPF for my new company

To do List In Singapore:
1. Collect my visa on Friday
2. Sell my laptop and printer in Simlim (wait for Oy to come)
3. Buy SKII masks for cip2
4. Buy 'titipan' Ron's sister
5. Clean my room before Oy comes coz he's alergic to dust
6. Take unused empty boxes from supermarket - to pack my stuff
7. Clear my office desk
8. Throw away my furnitures at basement carpark (chair, computer table, TV table, side table - need Oy to help me)
9. Buy 'a mysterious gift for Ron'!! hahahaha...
10. Pay rent and internet bill (blom bayar internet bill sejak bulan December 2006)
11. Buy Bday gift for Oy
12. Collect pay cheque from company
13. Go to Ron's apartment to check letters etc
14. Finish my wedding website
15. Finish my office projects before I leave (it's not that I'm so nice and responsible employee but that's what my boss requires)
16. Get testimonial letter from my boss
17. Drop cheque at CPF Building
18. Shop till drop! (mumpung masih di S'pore)
hmm.. what else? Oh iyaaa... the most important thing is PACK MY STUFF!! Semua barang di kamar and kamar mandi harus bisa masuk ke dalam 3 koperku! Haruss!! Otherwise, I must throw them away.. huhuhuhu..

I'm so hungry now.. I wanna grab sponge cake downstairs nyam.. nyammm.. my SHAPE magazine said that eating sponge cake is the best choice since it only contains 5 gr of fat and 50 calories!

Bye diary..

Cheers
-Busy Abbie-

5.15.2007

My 'Twist & Shape' Money is GONE!!

Tuesday, 15 May 07, 10.58 am in office

I had a very bad experience last nite.. about my Twist & Shape.. you know what happened?? I lost the money ‘hasil penjualan’ my dear twist & shape, huuuuuuuu… I remember I put the money in my jeans’ pocket, it’s $90. At that time I also put my other $10 in that pocket just in case the buyer would gave me $100. Last nite I just remembered that I had not put that money in my wallet so I rushed back to my room to check the money… you know what, I was like crying the whole nite.. I only found $10, where has my $90 gone to???!!! It’s not because I lost $90 and I cried.. but because it’s the money from my Twist & Shape!! I sacrificed my feeling to part with it but now.. even the money doesn’t belong to me.. “I’m so sorry my dear twist & shape, I sold you for nothing…”

The first thing I was thinking when I found out that the money wasn’t in my pocket “Apa lelaki berbaju item kemarin isa magic pa???” I searched my whole apartment even inside my toilet bowl, below my bed, behind cupboard (just in case I dropped it somewhere), the money wasn’t anywhere found.. I really cried the whole niteeee.. without anybody knows and cares.. in an empty room without TV (I sold my TV already).. crying while searching the money.. and remembering happy moments when I was still happily pedaling up there.. this morning I got popeye swollen eyes.. uhuk uhuk uhuk… I have the same feeling like 'putus cinta ditinggal pacar' now.. :'(

Cheers
-'Deeply in Sadness' Abbie-

5.14.2007

My After-Midnite Experience

Monday, 14 Apr 07, 9.40am in office

Morning little diary..
Last nite I couldn’t sleep till 2am plus... I think it was because I drank coffee in the evening or because I took nap for 2 hours in the afternoon.. after 2 hours ‘gedebak-gedebuk’ on my bed, I decided to call Ron since it was 2pm there.. we talked for 20mins on the phone then he asked me to sleep! I wish I could sleep! If I could sleep, I wouldn’t call him! *sigh*

I turned on my TV again, do you know that the TV shows after midnite are mostly GHOST STORY?? Stupid me watched it!! It was about a Chinese mother who accidentally lost her baby.. her baby kept blaming her mother for killing her and always appeared on her mother’s dream.. the most scary part was, the mother liked to play with a doll (the doll was wearing red Chinese dress)! She put the doll on her bed and treated it like her lost baby girl.. every time she played with the doll, the baby ghost appeared… WAAaaaaaAAAAaaaAAaa!!!! I was stunned till I couldn’t reach my remote control and switch to other channel..

Finally I managed to switch to channel U! It was an online Sudoku game.. hahaha.. I like it! Sudoku is a numbering game, we have to put the numbers 1-9 to the correct boxes. This game needs a calculation, it made my cute little brain so tired after trying to play it for about 15mins.. the screen was also red so my eyes couldn’t take it for so long.. and finally.. zzzZZZzzzzZZZzz… it’s a good TV program that should be played after midnite.. for those who desperately need to sleep like me.. not a ghost ‘freaking scary’ story! Thanks to Channel U!

Hey, I need to get back to work now.. my last week in this office! Yuhuuuu!!
See you soon, diary..

Cheers
-Abbie-

5.13.2007

45 Things a Woman NEEDS, not WANTS! :P

Sunday, 13 Apr 07, 11.40pm at home

Hi again.. here are 45 tips to a guy.. all women from any level of age need these!!! We're not high demanding, we just need what we naturally need.. guys, you practice those in BIG capitals will be enough! ^_^
*praying that Ron will read this... please God.. please God..*

1-touch her waist
2-talk to her
3-SHARE SECRETS
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss her slowly
6-HUG HER
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-LET HER BE WITH YOU WHEN YOU'RE WITH YOUR FRIENDS
11-smile with her
12-take pics with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-WHEN SHE SAYS SHE LOVES YOU MORE, DENY IT, FIGHT BACK! The more you fight back, the happier she's!
15-when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she cant get to her friends. it makes her feel loved
16-always hug her and say i love you when you see her
17-KISS HER UNEXPECTADLY
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THEWAIST
19-TELL HER SHE'S BEAUTIFUL not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her! (DON'T TELL HER IF YOU HONESTLY FEEL SHE'S UGLY, FAT, NOT SEXY, OTHER GIRL IS PRETTIER!)
21-kiss her on the lips
22-Don't ask her to buy you stuff. you buy her stuff
23-Tell her what feels good
24-MAKE HER FEEL LOVED
25-BUY HER STUFF, SMALL THINGS CAN HELP
26-DON'T LIE TO HER.
27-DON'T CHEAT ON HER.
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-txt message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school/work, and how much you miss her
30-be there for her when ever sheneeds you, & even when she doesn't need you, JUST BE THERE so she'll know that she can always count on you
31. Hold her close when she's cold and she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the tip of her nose (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. WHILE IN THE MOVIE, PUR YOUR ARMS AROUND HER and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Dont ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she's upset, comfort her
36. When people diss her, stand up for her LIKE WHAT SUPERMAN, BATMAN, AND SPIDERMAN, ULTRAMAN, GABAN, etc DO!
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and puther head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. WHEN WALKING NEXT TO EACH OTHER, GRAB HER HAND
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible
41. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and WIPE AWAY HER TEARS.
43. Take her for long walks at night
44. Dedicate a song to her (if you have nice voice ONLY!!)
45. ALWAYS REMIND HER HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER. you'll never know when she needs just a lil more love. (Coz girl is forgetful)

Cheers
-Abbie-

Bye Bye My Dear 'Twist & Shape'

Sunday, 13 May 07, 10.00pm at home

Hi Little Diary,
Aku baru sedihhhh... karna aku harus berpisah dengan my dear 'Twist & Shape'!! Aku harus menjualnya karna terlalu berat and gede untuk dibawa ke Japan, kita bakal bawa printer gedee karna udah terlanjur beli and sayang utk dijual.. Ron gak mau kita kayak org kampung "Benyamin masuk kota" wkt datang ke Japan bawa (read: 'nyunggi') dus banyak, gede2 pula.. So, aku harus merelakan Twist & Shapeku untuk dijual... Nggak tau kenapa rasanya sedihh banget sampe tadi tidur siangpun aku gak nyenyak, terasa sedih banget wkt inget kalo hari ini hari perpisahanku dengannya.. tadi pagi aku pake twist & shape untuk yg terakhir kalinya.. ini aku upload poto terakhirnya waktu aku pack twist & shape ke kotaknya.. menarik plastik penutupnya dengan hati2...

Aku baru beli bulan Oct taon lalu.. belum juga genap berumur 7 bulan dan sekarang orang lain telah memilikinya.. baru tadi jam 7.30pm aku mengantarkan kepergiannya sampai ke depan MRT control station and seseorang berbaju hitam menyambutnya dengan senyuman, memberikan uang kepadaku, and bye bye... hoaaaaaaaa..... *sempet aku meliriknya untuk yang terakhir kalinya dan kulihat lelaki berbaju hitam tadi sedang membopong my twist & shape dengan mesranya*.
Habislah kisahku dengan my Twist & Shape mulai hari ini.. kucoret daftar listku di "Hargenas" yg tentang Twist & Shape jadi sekarang aktivitasku cuman tinggal 9, tidak lagi 10... semoga lelaki berbaju hitam, pemiliknya yang baru memperlakukannya dengan baik.. kulihat dia berbadan besar, ototnya kencang, berambut jabrik, bermata sipit dan berbibir tipis agak sadis.. pasti dia akan menginjak-injak pedal dan menarik-narik tali penarik Twist & Shape lebih keras dari apa yang kulakukan biasanya.. ohhhh!!
Aku berharap bakal bisa nemu alat sejenis Twist & Shape lagi nanti kalo udah sampe Japan. Thank you, Twist & Shape.. walaupun badanku sekarang masih gembur2 dan belum meling2 seperti yang diiklankan di TV, tetep aja aku ngrasa kalo dia sudah sangat membantu sekali dalam pembentukan badanku hingga jadi seperti skg ini..
Bye bye my dear Twist & Shape....

Cheers
-Abbie-

5.08.2007

My Outdoor Pre-Wed Photos ^_^

Tuesday, 8 May 07, 9.51am in office

Hi Diary, I just received photos from King yesterday.. hihihi.. so here I upload for you.. these outdoor photos haven't been touched up yet but at least you can see the real pictures of the island that I was talking about..






Cheers
-Abbie-

5.05.2007

2 months Before the Wedding/Moving to Japan

Saturday, 5 Apr 07, 6.19pm in my room

Hi my little diary..
Today I started to develop my wedding website. Actually the reason I want to make my own website isn't only for our wedding, I want to continue updating the site with our stories after the wedding too, like the honeymoon, the newlyweds story, and the baby (oopss..)! Don't worry, little diary, it doesn't mean that I'll abandon you.. you're still my private diary, that website is just to upload pictures and summary of my life. See, you're still more important and more personal to me. Anyway, I have the design template already, just need to fix the contents and tune up the design. Developing a website is not easy! It's very time consuming and sometimes irritating because every single things need attention.. arghh!

Beside developing website and collecting materials for the website, I also use my time (when Ron's not around) by learning Japanese! Yoohoo! Before he left, he bought me several books for me to read and learn and understand: "Japanese for Dummies" (to learn the language), "The Rough Guide to Tokyo" (to learn the culture, lifestyle, etc). He was right when he bought the Japanese for Dummies, the book is very clear and easy to understand. *Of course! It's meant for dummies..*

Now I only have 2 more weeks to stay in Singapore. Now I'm busy scheduling my time to meet up with my friends here. When I told them I'd go overseas for good, they wanted to see me to say bye bye and wish me a good luck... now I feel sad leaving them although I don't really meet up with them when I'm in Singapore.

I've booked my air ticket to Indonesia on 22 May and will be back to Singapore again (for few days transit before flying to Japan) on 12 July (just 4 days after our wedding).

Everyone says that I'm very lucky to have chance to live in Japan. I was also very excited when I knew that we're moving there. What I'm still excited about living in Japan are:
1. Japan has winter!
2. Japanese fashion is very elegant and cute (I can dress up as cute as Japanese??)
3. My skin will look good because of the weather and the Japan-made cosmetics (Japan is popular with its great skin treatment)
4. I'll have chance to design my house in Japanese style
5. I can be a novelist! Yeeee!!! (read: I don't need to work! Huahahahaha!)

Now, I start thinking:
1. How my life will be like in Japan?
2. Will I have friends there?
3. Will I be able to speak Japanese fluently one day?
4. Will Ron be so busy with his work? (because Japanese is popular as the most workaholic worker in Asia) Will he be able to coupe with the stress level in the working environment there?
5. Can I go back to work, at least earn some money, one day in the future? I feel uneasy depending on husband for the whole my life.
6. Where will be our next destination country? and when will that time come?

My life will totally be changed after 2 months! Cip2 and her husband told us that usually people greet a newly wed couple "Selamat Menempuh Hidup Baru", that greeting will be very suitable for us. We'll have a new life, new culture, new environment, new work, new house, new friends, new language, new lifestyle, and of course the existence of new life-partner! Too many changes are happening at the same time! I know it's God's plan on us..

"Don't think too much, Abbie.. just do what you can do, one at a time.. live well, shop well, eat well, sleep well..." Yeah, those are what I'm good at! :D

Cheers
-Abbie-

5.04.2007

Oopss.. I got Handbags

Friday, 4 May 07, 7.16pm in office

My little diary, I just received very good news from Ron. Hahahaha.. I can't stop laughing.. hahahaha.. ok enough enough... hahahaha *still not enough* hahahahahahahaha... Oh My God! hahaha... Oh My God! Hahaha.. oopss.. hahahahahaha......

Ok, serious mood on now. Ehem ehem.. Ron bought a handbag in US for me, from my favorite brand, DIOR!!! And another bonus handbag from COACH! Oh, I lop him coooo much!! Oopss.. it's not because he bought me branded handbags then I love him.. I mean I love him more now.. hihihihi.. *asikk bisa kembaran tas and dompet Diorku (given by cip2) sekarang*

Here I upload the pics for you.

D.I.O.R + C.O.A.C.H

I should commemorate today, 4 May 2007 as one of important moments in my life.. *masukin tiang pancang* because.. because.. I believe that if there's the first one, there would be the second one and the third one and the fourth one etc etc etc.. You got what I mean? It means that from today onwards,.....................oopss suddenly remembered he told me "Jangan ketagihan minta barang branded lagi loh ya"! It's ok, just keep the faith in your heart and keep praying and dream will come true! Hahahaha... Woohooo...!!

I told him to really take care of these bags, treat them as his own babies coz I'm scared he carelessly puts inside the luggage and *mak nyett*. Then, he told me that he was going to send 'my babies' by courier to Indonesia hahaha.. what a great service! Wait wait, how if the deliveryman lost it? Or if the deliverywoman likes it and wants to take it?? or if the bag "ketrocohan" water while in the ship? Should I ask him to send by air? In the plane also can be "ketrocohan" water from the aircon. So how?? May God bless them..

Cheers
-Happy Abbie-