Friday, 4 July 08, 12.59pm at home
My Diary..
I'm still so sick today, my head is still in pain and heavy, my throat, my nose, my bones.. argh.. I feel like simak2. Why must I fall sick in this crucial time? You know what I mean, rite? Yes, it's just 3 more days to go to my anniversary and I had no mood and strength to find nice places, accommodation, transportation etc this week. It's ok, think positive, Abbie!
1. Celebrate it at home has a very deep, intimate, irreplaceable meaning.
2. Celebrate it at home doesn't cost anything
3. Celebrate it at home for 1st anniversary is a good start since it will not set a high expectation for the next years' celebration. It should be progressing over the years, rite? Even if the 2nd anniversary will also be celebrated at home, it doesn't mean that our marriage is regressing, at least it's stagnant.
4. Celebrate it at home is healthy because we'll be protected from UV, global warming, dusts, air pollution, and rain!
5. Celebrate it at home is very beneficial because....
6. Celebrate it at home is a good example for....
7. Celebrate it at home has positive point if we look at from....
8. Celebrate it at home has significant advantage since....
9. Celebrate it at home is a good way to....
10. Celebrate it at home is so wonderful idea because...
Yes!! I have 10 positive points why we should celebrate 1st wedding anniversary at home! I can't believe I have these amazing reasons! :D Yes, I know, I know, I'm still trying to figure out how to fill in the blanks from no.5 to no.10. Please appreciate my work, I was doing my best.
I'm so lemezz now, let me lie down for minutes, kay?
Bye diary.. ZZzzzZzzzzzZzz...
-Abbie-
9 comments:
I agree... :)
Recently, I listened to a radio. They have a formula for happiness.
Happiness = Reality / Expectation
So, if your expectation is too high, most probably you would not be that happy; and vice versa. It still depends on reality (which btw, we cannot control).
Happiness lies between too much n too little.. hohoho..
Sebenere si.. happy ato ngga mah kayanya tergantung dari diri kita sendiri.. selama kita mensyukuri kita punya n menerima yang kita dapat dengan hari terbuka n legawa (apa ya bhs indo e).. mungkin kita bisa lebih happy.. (omong opo to iki.. kok kaya ngelantur dari topik ' celebrating anniversary')
yah.. pokoke maksude gitu-gitu lah.. mudheng to.. nda usah gitu2.. nek emang gitu2.. untuk gitu2.. nda perlu gitu2... gituh loh..
Lah iya itu tadi... dari equation-e itu, asal Expectation-e dibikin makin kecil, pasti makin happy.
Masalah-e sekarang, gimana kalo orang gak punya expectation sama sekali (Expectation = 0). Something divided by zero kan unlimited.
Opo orang sik gak ada expectation jadi unlimited happy?
Sebelum melenceng lebih jauh lg, saya belokkan dulu.. Mari kita beri saran apa aja yg bisa dilakukan untuk annyversary2an di rmh, after dinner tentunya. Dinner kan udah pasti to? Koko udah nyebutin 1, listening to the radio. Usulan2 dari saya, antara lain..
1. Foto2an pake tripod
2. Pijit2an, atau injek2an kalo kurang terasa.
3. Kuiz suami-istri (bentuk simple dari kuiz keluarga)
4. Nga ngapa2in, cukup duduk berdua berhadapan. Let the eye tells. (kalo udah suami istri, bercanda2 aja bisa jd ribut. Jd lbh aman pentheleng2an aja, kagumi pasangan msg2..find out again why u love him so much!)
5. Kalo cuaca memungkinkan, hbs dinner di rmh jalan2 di sekitar rmh. Sambil nurunin makanan, sambil gandengan tgn..enjoy night viewing, nostalgia jaman pacaran. Ngomongin jaman pcran yg indah2, wkt pedekate.. (ingat, topik tdk blh lewat dari itu. Jgn smp membandingkan dgn masa skg.)
Sementara baru itu yg kepikir. Aniway,ini subuh2 tls komen sambil nyusui, skg baby udah hbs mik cucu, have 2 go back to sleep jg. Ciaoo..
Lah kok tidak boleh membandingkan masa pacaran dan masa sekarang. Emang masa sekarang tidak indah lagi ta? Huahahaha.....
Kalo aku dulu, 1st anniversary malah honey moon. Soal-e abis merit, gak sempet honey moon. Wis sibuk mesti langsung kerja.
Hoahaha kalian kok lucu2. Sebelum daku komentar, cuma pingin mbetulin komen dari ci Jess dulu, koko nggak ide utk ndengerin radio loh, koko cuma bilang denger suatu perkataan indah waktu ndengerin radio. Subuh2 mata ngantuk jadi blur liatnya, apalagi liatnya pake inet hp pula, jadi tulisan lbh imut2. Satu lagi, kalo emang mau nyusui mbok ya jangan bilang2 di sini, vulgar itu.
Thanks buat saran2nya ci Jess, ini saya komentari buat tiap sarannya.
Saran 1 > iya memang akan saya lakukan. Kalo di rumah ga perlu tripod kayaknya, camera bisa diletakkan di atas kulkas, rice cooker, tv, atau tumbukan batu bata.
Saran 2 > Aku sering ditipu, abis mijet ga dipijet balek. Kapok ah mainan pijit2an.
Saran 3 > Kuiz suami istri? Ga perlu dikasi kuiz pun tiap hari udah tebak2an apa sih maunya si dia dan masih blom tertebak sampe sekarang.
Saran 4 > Makin dipelototin, makin ditanya dlm ati 'why I fall for him?' tar takutnya.. itu.. anu.. mending ini dilakukan pas eniverseri ke-50 aja. Ini tahap kelas berat ini.
Saran 5 > Sekarang udah panasss...
Buat Koko, mbok jangan mingin2in aku dengan hanimun pas eniversari pertama gitu lohhh.. aku juga inginnnn...
Buat Ci S, emang bener, harusnya gitu2 ajaa pas eniversarii.. apapun itu2nya, yg jelas pasti gituu banget dehh!!
Kalo expectation makin kecil emg makin hepi..
Trus kl expectation=0, unlimited hepi??
Jd, para org yg putus asa,putus harapan n desperado tuh malah unlimited happy kah??
I think it back again to happiness ga bole too little or too much..
Btw,omg2in ttg happy2.. Mao ucapin buat abigail.. Happy 1st anniversary yah...
No matter how u celebrate ur anniversary, yg penting tetap gitu2.. Hehehe.. ^^
eh..kan nyusuinya pake dot, susu sapi lg. Btw, hepi annyversary.. Congrats yah.. Jgn bosen2 ngrayainnya, ini br yg pertama..msh ada berpuluh2 lg.. Jd hrs kreatip ide ngrayainnya tiap thn.
Tengkiu dara2ku (singkatan dari sodara2ku)!! :D
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